Thursday, July 10, 2008

FIVE STAGES OF LOVE FAILURE

FIVE STAGES OF LOVE FAILURE

What are the stages of love failure ? This happens when your loved ones dump you the following stages continue in our life.

It can be break it down in five stages : (1)DENIAL , (2)ANGER , (3)BARGAINING , (4)DEPRESSION & (5)ACCEPTANCE

Stage 1: DENIAL - In this stage you will not accept the things which are true . you try to still believe that he is still with you

Eg: If he/she dumped you they first see that in one or other reasons they try to avoid you , similarly this obviously seen in divorced cases .

Stage 2: Anger – Avoiding makes you anger , this sought of feelings make you depressed but at the same time you don’t want to leave him. Anger sought of stage comes with his /her rude behavior .

Eg: The moment you feel anger you want to leave him or you don’t want to talk to him , but you are restricted to do so because you still have a soft corner on him.

Stage 3: Bargaining - In this stage he/she avoids you completely & you try to communicate with him. He will try console you or just leave you.

Bargaining stage makes you cry & upset . so, it would be a good for you as fast as you come out of this stage because as it reaches peak it even lead to suicides or upsets mentally .

Stage 4 :Depression - In this stage you come to know that he dumped you . you feel frustrated & couldn’t express your feelings this will continue for few days.

Stage 5 : Acceptance – Finally you will accept that he left you , he will not come back. So, its better not to think about him & totally waste of time .

As fast as you are out of this stage that not only helps your personnel life but also your professional life.